Have you ever been in love? Yes, that butterfly in the stomach love? That love where you can’t sleep at night? That love where all you can think of is that special someone? That someone who you would do absolutely anything for? We all have had that “memory burn” love haven’t we? But would you die for that “love”? Wow, stop and think about the depth of that love. Can you think of someone that you would die for? Your spouse? Your children? Your grandchildren? Anyone? And think about it, people have died and are continuing to die for Christ, even today! Now that is LOVE. Love, faith and grace.
C.S Lewis said; “When I love God more than I love my earthly dearest, then I shall love my earthly dearest more than I do now.” Or;
F.B Meyer equated the magnitude of God’s love in this very descriptive manner; ” The love of God toward us is like the Amazon River watering a single daisy.” And you thought you loved someone? I don’t think it is humanly possible to equate human love with the love God has for his children. Yes, we all have loved someone with what we thought was our entire being and heart. You probably didn’t think you could love another person any more than you do right now. But would you die for them?
Let’s go back to C.S Lewis for a moment as I just love his quote, “for when I love God more than I love my most dearest earthly person, then and only then will I love my earthly dearest more than I do now”. But how is it possible to love someone more than you do now? C.S Lewis made it quite clear as does the Bible that the love of God leads to a deeper love for others.
I recently was talking to a good friend and I asked him, “how can people claim to love God when they don’t know Him”? He said to me, Scott that is a great question, let me think about that one for a while. It has been a while, and we still ponder that question. But doesn’t it make sense? Think about it this way; that butterfly love you had with your first love didn’t just happen overnight, did it? The more you got to know that “special” loved one, the more you loved them, the more your stomach fluttered, the more you thought about them, the more you wanted to be with that person! I hear people all the time tell me they love God and love His son Jesus Christ, but do you know them? What have you done to get to know God? What have you done to get to know Jesus? Do you spend time with them by reading your Bible? Do you spend time with them in prayer, just talking to them?
I love music, I love the Beatles and all oldies music. Maybe it was because it was the music I grew up with? Maybe it is the lyrics? One of my favorites is by Bobby Vinton and his love song called “To know you is to Love You?” Yes of course it’s a love song about young love, but it could also be about our relationship with Jesus. In his song he writes;
“I bring love to you”, this could be God saying to us, “I love you”.
“I walk alongside of you”, could be a picture of Jesus walking side by side with us in our daily lives.
“Why can’t you see how blind love can be”, could be God calling us to Himself with all our faults and sins!
And then Bobby wrote, “to see you smile makes my life worthwhile”, could be that when God sees that we love Him he is smiling.
Loving God is “work”!! Let’s be honest. In Deuteronomy 6:5 we are called by God to love our God with all our heart, soul and mind! Whew, that’s a lot! We are born of a sinful nature and we are called to love our God with all our heart, mind and soul? In Leviticus 19:18 we are to love our neighbor as ourselves. Now that isn’t fair! There are some people we just can’t stand to be around. I know I am not alone on this issue, but nope, got to love them as ourselves. Then in the New Testament Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44 that we are to love our enemies. Now come one, even those who persecute us? Those who harm us? Yes, even those!! In Mark 12:30-34 Jesus stresses that the love of God is meaningless unless it issues in the love of others. Then the Apostle Paul tells us that LOVE is the premier Christian quality (Gal 5:22, Col 3:14, 1 Tim 1:5 and 4:12). And John while exiled to the island of Patmos tells us in 1 John 4:16 that God is LOVE, and that if we abide in love, God abides in us and that because of this LOVE we should have no fear because there is no fear in LOVE. We are able to LOVE because He first LOVED us! It is simply amazing that we have a God that loves us that much!! Even with all our faults and sins, He still loves us.
Okay, I got it, Love God with all your heart, mind and soul and love others as you love yourself. And fear not, because if you LOVE, God LOVES you. It’s tough sometimes to comprehend and realize that God loves us that much! And to be brutally honest with you, as my spiritual growth and knowledge of God has increased, so has my LOVE for Him and others grown! I have been transformed from a person you wouldn’t wan to have been around, a person that thought it was all about me and that there was nothing bigger than I was! Then God got a hold of me and transformed this lump of clay into a very caring and loving person. People are amazed that I have changed so radically. It is all because of the LOVE of God. A few years before I retired I had employees stop me and ask me why I was so happy all the time. It was perfect time to tell them how much God loved me and how I loved them. But it didn’t happen overnight! This is a process! A process to realize that LOVE is the greatest of all God’s gifts and through this LOVE we grow in faith and grace! But before we look at faith and grace lets take one more quick look back at LOVE.
When do you learn the most in life? I think during two periods of time. One is when you are a child and second is when you are so far down that you are “eating with the pigs”. We will get back to “eating with the pigs” later, but now let’s look at the mind of a child?
A child’s mind is so moldable and I think that is why Jesus said in Matthew 18:1-6; V3 “Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven,”, here Jesus is saying that the matters of the world have not yet corrupted the young mind of children and they are able to learn and understand His love. In V4 Jesus says, “humble yourself like a child”, in other words be willing to learn and Jesus says V6; ” whoever causes one of these little ones to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea”. So in other words, if you corrupt or harm one of these little children and their learning, you are going to pay dearly.
I can’t take credit for the phrase eating with the pigs. That quote comes from a dear friend Steve Swanson . Steve is a pastor of a church in Minneapolis and one day we were talking about spiritual growth and people willingness to change and learn. Steve said that a person will not learn or change until they hit the lowest point in their lives, thus like the prodigal son found eating with his fathers pigs, he was unwilling to change or to learn from the father. So a question to all of you is this; “have you eaten with the pigs”?
The greatest gift of all from God is LOVE (1 Corinthians 13;13) and through this LOVE we are developing a deeper FAITH and GRACE. So basically it looks like this:
LOVE
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FAITH GRACE
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Now we get into some sticky stuff. When we look at FAITH, in 2 Thes 3:2, “Not all have FAITH”. Now I can believe this based on some of the comments I read on blogs or papers. Those comments from people denying Gods existence and swearing and using God’s name in vain hurt me deeply. They hurt because I know where they are heading when they die. If you don’t believe in God you certainly will not have FAITH, not Faith in Him or His word that’s for sure. I like what the Apostle Paul says in his letter to the Romans; “God has allotted to each a measure of faith” A measure of faith? If I am understanding the definition of a measure, that would indicate that God does not give each of us the same amount faith? Agree or disagree? Looking more closely at Romans 12:3 Paul says “For the Grace given to me, I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but think as to have a sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a “measure of faith”. Thoughts?
Then you have the Apostles of our Lord saying to Jesus in Luke 5 forward, “Lord increase our faith”. Increase our faith? What more do you need to have faith in The Lord Jesus Christ than to have had the opportunity to walk with him daily, to see his miracles, to hear him teach! And they ask for more??? If you read the commentaries on Romans they refer you to the Book of Wisdom where they say about Romans 12:3; ” One searches into matters of which the law does not speak is trying to be wiser. This is why Solomon says;”Do not inquire after things higher than yourself and do not search after things greater than yourself but think always on things that God has commanded you. Sir 3:22″
So summarizing Faith; Saint Augustine said; “Faith is to believe what we do not see. The reward of this FAITH is to see what we believe.” Faith will not always get for us what we want, but it will get what God wants us to have. So as our love for God increases our Faith also increases. it increases to the point where we are not leaping into darkness, we are actually leaping out of darkness and into the LIGHT!!
Grace; something I surely didn’t have a lot of before my love for Christ grew and continues to grow, but I know many people whose Grace just flows out of them. I have a sister-in-law Mary that is the most gracious person I know. When Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:7 “To each one of us Grace was given according to the measure of Christ’s gifts”, Mary got a full load of grace that’s for sure. These gifts are spiritual gifts! Do you know what your spiritual gifts are? There are numerous spiritual gift surveys, one that I used to teach was called Network. For a list of spiritual gifts see 1 Corinthians 12. What do you think your gifts are?
As A.W Tozer wrote about grace; ” Grace is the good pleasure of God that inclines Him to bestow benefits on the undeserving.” The undeserving is ALL of us!! We all fall short of the glory of God. Jesus’ younger brother Jude writes in Jude 1:4 “ungodly people turning the GRACE of our God into licentiousness and deny our only Master and Lord Jesus Christ.” In 1:16 Jude tell us who these people are and we all know them. They are the grumblers, finding fault in anything and everything, following their own lusts, they are the ones that speak arrogantly and flatter people for their own gain. You know them, I know people exactly like that! There is no denying the fact.What we ought to know to protect ourselves from these people Jude describes is what measure of Grace we received and what measure of faith we have been given.
I believe Stephen, the first Christian martyr knew his measure of faith! He had to!!To go to his death by stoning? Or one of the later teachers of God’s word, Polycarp. Polycarp died in 150’s at the age of 86. He was a Christian all his life and was old enough to remember people who met Jesus themselves. Polycarp became Bishop of Smyrna in Asia Minor. The way Polycvarp went to his death is nothing short of amazing and a testament of his strong faith in The Lord. See the jews wanted :Polycarp to swear by the genius of Caesar. He refused!! The proconsul said I have wild beasts, I will throw you to them unless you change your mind. Polycarp stayed fast in his conviction and faith in The Lord Jesus Christ. The proconsul then said I will have you consumed by fire since you despise the wild beast, unless you change your mind! Hold fast to his faith Polycarp says NO. Polycarp went onto say that “you threaten with fire that only burns briefly and after a little while it is extinguished, for you ignorant of the fire of the coming judgment and eternal punishment which is reserved for the ungodly. But why do you delay. Come, do what you wish”. Okay lets be honest here, how many are running at this point? How many are saying ok Caesar is the god? Not Polycarp! With courage and joy, and his face was filled with grace, so that not only did he not collapse in fright at the things that were said to him.
So the crowd quickly gathered the wood and built the Pyre. When the pyre was ready they took all of his clothes off and they were getting ready to nail him to the wood and he said to them”Leave me as I am, for the one who enables me to endure the fire will also enable me to remain on the pyre without moving, even without the security you get from the nails. So they didn’t nail Polycarp but tied him instead with his hands behind his back. Before they lit the pyre he asked if he could pray? They granted Polycarp’s request and he prayed; ” O Lord God Almighty, Father of your beloved Son Jesus Christ, through whom we have received knowledge of you., the God of angels and powers and of all creation, and of the whole race of the righteous who live in your presence. I bless you because you have considered me worthy of this day and hour, so that I might receive a place among the number of martyrs in the cup of Christ (Rev 6:9-11), to the resurrection to eternal life, both of soul and body, in the incorruptibility of the Holy Spirit.” Polycarp goes on “I praise you, I bless you, I glorify you, through the eternal and heavenly high priest, Jesus Christ, your beloved Son, through whom be the glory to you, with him and the Holy Spirit, both now and for the ages to come. ” Amen!
After he said his Amen the men lit the fire, it was a mighty flame and a miracle occurred. The fire took the shape of an arch, like the sail of a ship and completely surrounded the body of Polycarp. We perceived a very fragrant aroma as if it were like bread baking or incense or some other precious spice burning. When the lawless men realized that the body could not be consumed by fire the executioner went up and stabbed him with a dagger. And when he did this, there came out a dove and a large quantity of blood, so that it extinguished the fire; and the whole crowd was amazed that there should be so great a difference between the unbelievers and the elect!!
Polycarp had a faith that we should all strive for in our lives. Him and all the martyrs for the faith. But how? How do we get there and is it humanly possible? Good question? Not sure I have the answers but I do have God’s word.
First we need to renew our minds (Romans 12:2). Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. How can we start renewing our minds?
1) practice wisdom
2) reflection on God’s word, in other words read your Bible, join a small group, get involved with your local church.
3) develop a spiritual understanding of God’s laws. Like do not murder, commit adultery, do not covet your neighbors property and many others. This one is tough!! First you have tom learn what God’s laws are and then follow them. Then you can start wrestling with voting for a candidate who supports abortion!
4) Perfect the will of God – Jere 32:37-44 which in summary says that a spiritually minded heart will know what is good and acceptable to God.
I wish I could leave you with something prophetic but I am drained! I will leave you with this from the Gospel of John:
“I write my Gospel so that you may come to believe”.
God Bless all of you…….